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Monday, 16 November 2009

  • It's the end of an era with xanga. I really wanted it to last, but the past 7 weeks have been very frustrating with the picture upload settings. Therefore, I'm starting a new blog site effective immediately: www.retrospectation.blogspot.com.

    I look forward to continuing the journal of our happenings there!

Tuesday, 29 September 2009

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    State of Play
    By Russell Crowe, Helen Mirren, Ben Affleck, Rachel McAdams, Harry J. Lennix
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    Week One of the No Spending Challenge

    09.21.2009-09.27.2009

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    An area I’d like to see myself improve in is budgeting, specifically devoting more money for savings.  Inspired by this blog we started a No Spend Month Challenge.  Our start date is September 21st – and end date October 21st.  Here are our rules:

     

    Continue paying regular amount on:

    • Mortgage
    • Savings and investments
    • Tithes and gifts
    • Prior commitments

    Budget Cut Backs:

    • Groceries and eating out
    • Gas
    • Clothing
    • Household items
    • Entertainment

    Due to the fact that we decided on this spontaneously and that we had a small window of time to work with (we have a family vacation the end of October), we didn’t put much planning into this.  So, we started out a bit behind with groceries, gas, and prior commitments.  Prior commitments included taking a friend out for her birthday brunch, a shower gift for someone in our church, and supporting a close friend’s party (I’m purchasing something that will save me money in the long run).

     

    So, our spending this week is higher than I anticipate for the next week anyways.  That being said, we saved about $57 on groceries by making cut-backs and shopping at our brand new Walmart Supercenter. 

     

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    I discovered a few truths about our spending habits last week and they are as follows:

     

    Food, food, food

    We blow a lot of our budget on food.  I definitely use off brand products, but it’s usually the extras like a bottle of Diet Coke for our pizza night that adds up.  We didn’t skimp on fun foods for our weekend; I just spent more time making things from scratch which is a lot cheaper, albeit more time consuming.  Also, I found that our biggest weakness is the weekend when we want to just order a pizza because we’re too exhausted to make anything else.  This was our hardest time-frame. 

     

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    I made my first cake and frosting combo from scratch over the weekend - frosting can be tricky business, I found.

    Entertainment

    Ben wanted to take me to a movie Friday night and almost picked up the phone to call his sister to ask for baby-sitting, but then remembered our spending fast.  Instead, we put the baby down at 8 and watched a free movie at home, cuddling on the couch and eating popcorn (his specialty) with cheese flavor sprinkled on top (he used the macaroni and cheese package for this!). 

     

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    Clothing

    Ben and I knew Carter needed some warmer and bigger clothes for the fall/winter.  So, we thought we may have to purchase a few of these items for him.  Instead, we shopped a la Maverick - looking in the boxes downstairs of the clothes Ben’s cousin, Maverick gave us.  I didn’t think Carter would fit into these since they were all 12 months + (I sorted and boxed all the clothes before Carter was born), but a lot of babies clothes are completely off-size and we found a lot that will work for him before purchasing anything else this winter. 

     

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    Household Items

    Ben’s popcorn maker is dying and we probably would’ve gone out to buy a new one over these 31 days, instead, we’re keeping it alive as long as possible!

     

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    Insights

    Overall I’m finding that saving money takes more time and effort.  This can definitely work, it’s just taking more forethought, energy, and creativity than I usually expend.  This means other things are reprioritized and others neglected.  Housecleaning and laundry suffered this week as a result.

     

    The biggest value I’m finding so far is a change mindset.  For instance, when I do have to spend money I can still find ways to get the best value for my dollar and think long-term. 

     

    Of course, while taking some pictures for this blog entry my little Carter Bear woke up from his morning nap:

     

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    Very happy to see his rescuer!

     

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    Then we played some dress up, which he wasn't thrilled about...

     

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    He finally resigned himself to Mommy's crazy ways. 

Monday, 28 September 2009

  • Fun Times with Baby Carter

    Defining a great Saturday by one full of grocery shopping, naps, studying, exercising, cooking, and cleaning is definitely a new thing for me.  Productivity and naps are usually what I need to know I've had a good day in this season of life - here's to life as a grown up.

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    Does he just melt your heart, or what?!

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    Sunday we packed up Carter's itty bitty baby clothes and broughout the big boy clothes. 
    This wardrobe was generously donated by Ben's cousin, Maverick.

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    Carter thought it'd be fun to help.

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    He's *such* a little boy, his favorite toys are cars and balls.

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    He's fascinated by the camera these days.

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    My goofy boy

     Life is as busy as it gets right now, we have something booked every weekend until November and a vacation planned with family the end of October (instead of our annual trip to Florida for Thanksgiving).  Carter and Ben make it worth it all.  Carter gives me those melting smiles and Ben's always there to listen and encourage - even after full days of work and studies.  I love my boys!

Sunday, 20 September 2009

  • Hi, my name is Debi and I'm an addict.

    ...addicted to blogs, that is.  Okay, so maybe there's the issue with chocolate, cheese, and moose tracks, but that's for another day. 

    So, I'm addicted to blogs.  There are SO many fantastic ideas out there.  The one that I really like is a 31 day saving challenge, inspired by: this blog.  Ben and I are going to try that one starting the end of this week.  I'll keep you posted on how it goes. 

    I've come to the conclusion that I'm a certain breed of housewife - the one who still loves dancing the night away in heels with her dashing husband to jazz - the one who finds her home office job exciting and fulfilling - the one who likes shortcuts - the one who occasionally forgets her cloth grocery bags - the one who will never wield the power of a needle and thread - the one who enjoys lattes.  What I do find edgy and addictive are blogs covering topics of simplification, organization, decoration, and saving tips. 

    From Day At Sea

    Here are a few great ones I've come across:
    Favorite: http://smallnotebook.org/
    Houses:
    http://hookedonhouses.net/
    Interior Design: http://inspiracionline.blogspot.com/, http://diynewlyweds.blogspot.com/, http://www.designspongeonline.com/
    Art: http://geezeescanvas.blogspot.com/, http://www.redletterwords.com/ (not a blog, but so very cool)
    Finance: http://www.remodelingthislife.com/

    I also love photography blogs, but that'll be highlighted another time.  For now, I'll get back to my family and enjoy the unscripted life I currently live - dreaming of a more organized, balanced, inspired, and disciplined me. 

Friday, 18 September 2009

  • Domestic Realities

    Okay, so lately I've felt about as far a cry from domestic diva as possible.  I applaud my friends and fellow homemakers with their inspiration, ingenuity, economy, and environmental considerations.  While there are parts of being a wife, mom, and manager of the home that I adore there are far more aspects I dread and all together avoid.  So, after some drama playing out in my head that includes, but not limited to denial, guilt, reconstruction, and hope: I spent all afternoon indulging in some domestic joys (while Ben kindly baby-sat Carter).  Cooking is something I really do love, but find difficult with a 5 month old (I know, I only have 1 baby, but still). 

    Here are some of the results:
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    Ben's favorite: Dutch Apple Pie
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    We decided to have a "snack night" where we have miscellaneous foods we can throw together, usually it's because we had a big lunch. 
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    French bread (my first time making it, turned out surprisingly well) - and yes, it is white flour.  I was raised on the healthy wheat bread and still use it for sandwiches - but, there's nothing quite like a fresh loaf of white bread!

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    The makings of bruschetta.
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    While I'm still on *such* a learning curve as a mom I do love this baby beyond belief - he keeps us laughing, in suspense, and exhausted. 

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    Learning to use a sippy cup during rice cereal time at night.

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    Heart stealer!

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